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I have had the great pleasure of working with Jim Rohn, who inspired me to new levels of success and happiness. As one of America's greatest speakers, I consider him one of my early mentors. When I first met Mr. Rohn, I was sitting at a dinner table with ten other people. I grabbed a seat near him and just wanted to listen to his words of wisdom and conversation. When a lull in the conversation arose, I was caught off guard when Mr. Rohn asked me about my goals, dreams and aspirations. In response Cheap Nelson Agholor Jersey , I began to talk about many of the roadblocks I had experienced in my pursuit of success. I listed all the reasons why I wasn't able to achieve my goals and dreams. I let him know who was to blame and insisted none of it was my fault. I thought I had made a pretty good case and then the hammer dropped. Jim looked at me and said, ?Kurt, for things to change, you must change, and for things to get better, you must get better.? That brief moment in time changed my life forever. It was then that I realized that everything I wanted in life is on the other side of change Cheap Sidney Jones Jersey , not the other side of excuse. I also realized that no matter the excuse (good or bad), it would not produce results.
If you want to make the same kind of transformation in your life, the first thing you have to do is take an honest look at yourself and where you are. You can't make changes if you won't acknowledge what needs to be changed. Where are you starting? What is your current situation? If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be? It is only from honestly assessing where point A is that you can develop a well-defined, well-planned route to point B. Then the next obvious thing to determine is where or at what point B is located. In other words, what exactly are you aiming for? What do you want?
Now is not the time to be timid. Don't shortchange yourself because you want to be ?careful? or 'reasonable? or you don't want to ?rock the boat.? Shoot for the stars! You'll define the path to get there Cheap Derek Barnett Jersey , but first you have to know what exactly you're even trying to reach. In other words, you must begin with the end result and then work your way backward. You have to know exactly where you want to go and what you need to change to get there. Sometimes, people are actually afraid of being 'too? successful. To be brilliant or amazing might actually be a scary proposition. As success comes into sight, you might feel a lot of responsibility weighing down on you. So, how successful should you be? How healthy should you be? How wealthy should you be? How strong should your relationships be? Consider the following powerful quote from Nelson Mandela:
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There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. ? 1994 Inaugural Speech
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What is the least amount of work I can do to get a paycheck and not get fired? When we are in this lazy mindset, we can't find happiness, and as a result Cheap Carson Wentz Jersey , our souls start to rust.
The challenge is that we often don't see the consequences of our behavior fast enough.